I second the i81 ROUTE. Skip NJ, NY craziness (you can get it over the Tappen Zee too, I did last year. When you go to the Tappen Zee, the Garden State Parkway kills you with tools and you are on a much tighter road having to watch the bridges to see where you need to go under, some are very low on the outer sides. Lower tolls, less traffic, way better ride on 81, then connect to 84 into Mass. Just did it in June pulling a 41' 5th wheel. And after going the other routes the last 3 years, wish I had switched sooner.