Although I wish we could get together with the kids & grandkids, we are not comfortable waiting to leave till after the holidays. We face time the family on Christmas. I sold my turkey roaster and passed the baton. We are now grappling with the gifts dilema. The postage to mail a toy is nuts! Sending $ through the mail is risky. What do you all do? We don't gift each other, or the adult children, anymore. Such a relief. It's not like they don't buy whatever they want when they want it... I think it would be different if someone was having a tough time financially or emotionally.