I lost my wife over 12 years ago to cancer. I would visit my daughter and grandchildren when I could. I prefer being around them as they have got older when we camp and have fun they keep me going I meet with a group of people my age all we talk about is politics, health, and who has died. Being around young people you get to share your knowledge and help them grow and maybe be a better person. To each their own but this is what I prefer. Nothing like being at the campground on the lake and hearing the laughter and see people take time to relax and enjoy each other.