Found a good thread on this subject. They echo the problem with the parasitic draw from the solenoid valve, and it's in the neighborhood of 1A. Some fridges are 100% LP-only and have an advantage if you do a lot of boondocking. I'm not serious enough about it yet to swap a fridge, so I'll make do for now.
http://www.hybridexplorer.com/forum/index.php?topic=88010.0They also mention that DSI water heaters use a similar solenoid. It's a normally-closed solenoid, which is great for safety concerns, but tough on the battery. I think I'll be keeping the water heater off most of the day.
Given everything I've learned, looks like a 2nd battery and 250W of panels are the minimum I'd need. If I can do 2x6V golf cart batts as 2oldman mentioned that'd be great; just not sure if there will be an imbalance between the first group 27 batt and the array of 6V batts? One might drain to the other, etc.? Likely I will just grab a second group 27, stash it under the rear seat, and call it good.
SunElec.com has 125W panels for around $100 delivered. They've always had good prices on panels and have built a good reputation. Add a cheapie PWM controller and I'm set. (Maybe MPPT some day?) For around $400 I'm good to go. That price difference pays for around 30 nights at a popular full hookup campground nearby, so I have to balance that out. I've been wanting an off-the-grid "cabin" for emergencies, so maybe it'll be a good investment? And if I go boondocking three more weeks over the next few years it'd pay for itself :)
Thanks all!