tomthyme wrote:
We are looking for a longer trip and this might be just the thing.
There's nothing scary or difficult about doing a long trip by yourself. Just break it up in multiple small trips and plan each leg at a time. For instance, don't think of it as from Ohio to California. Think of it as Ohio to Colorado, then Colorado to Utah, then Utah to Nevada and Nevada to California. Explore what you want to do in each state.
If you're looking at a particular tour then model your trip after the places they go and eliminate things you wouldn't be interested in and adding additional things. Stay as long or short as you want.