PUCampin wrote:
For your wife to suggest she take the truck, trailer and the kids when she has so little experience driving a large vehicle tells me this meet up is very important to her even though she has not outright said it. When something is important to my wife, I try to make it happen for her even if I am not fond of it. If I was in your situation, I would just bite the bullet and make the trip with the attitude that you are doing it for her and the kids, and they are worth it.
They are worth it, but I am going to be pi$$y all next week that I spent my weekend stupidly and inefficiently instead of enjoying it. It would be such a simple thing for someone to meet us at the cabin, which is a 30 minute drive for them, on Friday night.
I agree with making my spouse happy and I love doing things with and for my kids. But there is a point where my happiness has to be taken into account too.
