Mike I wrote:
Threads like this is what keeps scaring me off from finally pulling the trigger. Been looking and reading these forums for two years and the more I read the more hesitant I get. We really want to get a fifth by this summer as my wife just has one more school year to go until she can retire and than we would like to hit the road. Problem is I am scared to drive the thing.
Don't be scared...be prepared.
I've driven and towed many different types and sizes of RV's. Each one required practice to learn how it would react and maneuver under normal conditions and extreme conditions like a panic stop.
Towing a 37 foot 5th wheel requires a well setup tow vehicle with both the tow vehicle and 5th wheel properly maintained. For the first several trips you will be white knuckling the steering wheel. Eventually you will realize that as long as you are calm, leave room to stop and drive at reasonable speeds it's just as easy as driving any other RV.
Practice is the key. Every RV I have had over the past 40 years, the first thing I do is take it over to a large empty parking lot to get a feel for it. I do backing maneuvers, panic stops, tight turns, quick lane changes, acceleration...etc so I will know what to expect.
I do this until I am comfortable with the RV.