I appreciate the help, just not the negative weight comments. I am under my gcwr, under my axle rating, under my max towed weight rating. I am over my payload rating, I am aware of that and of how the 2500 trucks are kept at the under 10K payload capacity ratings for a reason. Dont want to get into all that.
I think that some of you have already figured out my problem for me. I should have known, but was looking for some with similar experience. Now I know that I do not have the Anderson setup correctly. Remember,, I said it towed great with the Curt hitch. I need to move the whole thing forward a bit, the king pin is setting to far back and it was further forward with the Curt.
Again, thanks for the input.