Jim - I don't scare easily, lol, but I do want to be as safe as reasonably possible when my family is at stake. I am checking all my weights/ratings and a little over I'm ok with.
Okie1 - Thanks for your personal experience input.
As I stated earlier, I am using the Andersen Ultimate 5th Wheel Hitch which does NOT clunk and clang, but delivers the chucking pretty solidly.
I'll start looking into the Mor Ryde a little more. (no pun intended)
And Thanks to this forum and everyone for chiming in. Really helps shorten the learning curve !