Thanks,Russ, for your input. You are very right, we could have pulled that Wildcat if we had the lower ratio. But, we don't so back to the drawing board. Found a great website: "Fifth Wheel St." (st. stand for safe towing"). Helped me understand the different weight classifications. Plan on loading the TV this week as we would travel and get it weighed. That is a start. Now trying to find a fiver within acceptable distance within our parameters.
Sales people are just one piece of the puzzle. It all starts from the manufacturer. BUT, that being said, the sales people should have the customers interest and safety first and foremost. They should understand what is at stake and be honest with the consumer. Big lesson learned here and well worth the experience.
Safe travels!
