Up2nogood, I sent you a PM when I had my Reese hitch. You were very helpful but your hitch seemed to release much easier than mine. I called Reese support but their suggestions didn't help either. The dealer eventually replaced the head assembly. I was so frustrated at that point I sold it.
I agree the Andersen looks like a good hitch at a reasonable price. I know Pullrite has a new hitch called the Superlite. It is a similar design as the Andersen. Unfortunately neither will work with the Revolution pinbox.
I now have a picture frame adapter and my old 15K Husky hitch. The combination is fairly heavy though.