OP,
Here are some specs for Ram trailer weight ratings and axle ratios.
copy and paste from "2015 Ram 3500 Trailer Towing Chart – SAE J2807 Compliant"
All the following are for Ram 3500 CREW CAB LONG BOX, 4X4, DRW 6.7L CUMMINS DIESEL with the A6 68RFE transmission ($600 option) or the A6 AS69RC (Aisin) transmission (~$2900 option):
Axle Ratio___Max. Trailer Weight Rating A6 68RFE_____A6 AS69RC
3.42_______________________________16,660 lbs_____20,510 lbs
3.73_______________________________18,660 lbs_____23,510 lbs
4.10_______________________________21,660 lbs_____29,010 lbs
If you get the DRW option, you should be OK on payload. It is up to 5,680 lbs depending on options. Figure about 240 lbs less on a Longhorn compared to the base Tradesman.
Measure your weights twice and buy once.
FWIW, I am most likely buying a Ram 3500 CC LB DRW 4x4 Laramie with the Cummins, Aisin AS69RC transmission and 3.73 axle ratio to pull a FW with about 16000 GVWR.
Good Luck and Happy RVing.