You're trying to fix an address across state lines. When we moved to our current house about 8 years ago and I tried to get my drivers license changed with my new address (an Indiana address to a new Indiana address), you'd think the DMV in Indiana was asking to cough up a lung. We had to produce all kinds of documentation. They wouldn't even take their own state issued drivers license as proof of who you were! It was insane!
We got it done! and certainly hope I never have to move again!
Fidelity has to guard itself against a number of regulations. We don't live in the same world we use to. Times have seriously changed. And just by the OP's post, I'm having a hard time following exactly where he want's his permanent address to actually be? Slipping through the cracks these days are long gone!
I know, I work for a financial institution which shall remain nameless. (no, not Fidelity either).
