thanks to everyone who commented... our plan is currently as follows..
Move Mom (in 3 weeks, yikes!!) Have mover lined up and scheduled.
One week later, the last of the things family will take will be picked up (My children have to come from out of state around school and work schedules).
during that week and weekend, we will work to get additional things to MOM as she determines she needs them.
Release house to estate sale guy.. He said it would take approx 3 weeks for his crew to clear house, attic, sheds etc and prep for estate sale.
List house with realtor approx 1 week before sale.. to take advantage of estate sale advertising.
Hopefully by Memorial Day, I will be in RV somewhere hiding from the world and chaos of this adventure.