Guilt about family left behind?

I think Merrykalia presents excellent points to ponder. This is a question only the two of you can really decide. No one is being selfish - you both just seem to have differing thoughts on what is the best way to move forward. DH and I spend a good bit of time RVing - but we still maintain our home base. He would full time tomorrow. I'm not comfortable not having a brick and mortar place to call home. We respect each other's wishes by going on longer trips but always ending up back "home". As for feeling a debt of responsibility to older parents (or perhaps children or grandchildren) - that is also a very personal issue that no one else should judge. Just MHO. Must say, I'm happy for you that this issue is one you can have at your young ages! Being "in your 40s" is way sooner than we were even able to consider it!