Bird Freak wrote:
I'm not trying to sound cold here, but how can anyone know how important your kids and Grandkids are to you? I loved having all my Grandparents in my life and miss them so much. I guess the difference here is they really wanted to spend time with me.
I think that's kind of the whole point of the post. Deciding what you and the spouse really want to do in your heart of hearts.
I suspect just like retiring, full timing for some folks, is the greatest thing they ever did, and for others not so much.
Seems like with retiring, about half of folks, it is the greatest thing they ever did, the other half seem pretty bored. I just think folks really need to think stuff, like this through. And not get caught up in what others think. And or, the media tells you, what is great and what is not