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-Gramps-
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Dec 22, 2015

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I believe that I am a pretty good coach pilot. I still believe that even though I hit my mailbox while making a sharp turn into our driveway. Obviously I didn’t pull up the street far enough and turn sharp enough but long term damage done, except to my pride.

My car driving skills while making service calls (back when I had a business)…that is another thing altogether. I tend to talk on my cell too much while driving. I get distracted by the radio, the voices in my head, and the vehicles in front of me. The last thing really bugs me. I can be behind a dump truck, or a bus carrying seniors, while talking to a customer on the phone and I will blindly follow the bus down some street and then wonder how I got there.

If you were to ask Diane about it, she would say that I followed it because I couldn’t help myself, that I did it instinctively, like a salmon swimming upstream.

“You think so?” I would say to her.

“Yep” she might reply. “You are an old man and subconsciously you know you should be on that bus.”

“Very funny. So how do you explain my following a dump truck?”

“I can answer that. Because when you have rocks in your head you are magnetically attracted to trucks hauling large quantities of the same material. “

Well, I don’t make stupid driving decisions when driving the coach. Not many anyway. Our first year as owners of a motor coach was the worst getting into scrapes which included hitting a fence (actually the fence hit me), a mailbox, a tree, a tree, (no that is not a typo) a rock or two (they hit my coach windshield) . I think that is about all. Oh, I ran over a low rock wall with our second coach, the one we have now and I hit a telephone pole (actually the pole hit me).

If I were to list all the mishaps including bangs, bumps, holes, rips, and things that make you say “What the heck was that!” along with all the things that break on their own…I might have to ask myself the following question:

“What in the world has kept me in the motorcoaching world for the last ten years?”

That question is easy to answer.

Family.

It is the people we have met, the friends we have made that keep me looking forward to hitting the road again even though I might hit something else or it might hit me.

We rvers, we motorcoachers, are a rare breed.

I don’t know how to explain it to people who don’t do what we do how easy it is for us to make friends.

Some time ago I was at a Sonic Drive In next to a Lowes. At the edge of the Lowes parking lot was a 36 foot Motorcoach. It had its jacks down and its slide outs extended. Sitting in a lawn chair on the grass was a man named Bob and his black lab. Bob was taking it easy, smoking a cigar and seemed to be without a care in the world.

I walked over and started talking to him. We he found out I am a coacher as well he wanted to talk to me. Bob was visiting his daughter, a Navy officer, who was soon to be deployed to the Middle East. He and his wife had traveled from Arizona to see her. I told him about myself, my family and my coach. We talked for over an hour and parted as friends. Something tells me I will see him again one day.

I think we have the old American pioneering spirit still living in us. We are descendants of the people who loaded up their covered wagons and headed west. They would rally up at some fort on the trail. They shared food, and drink and stories.

These stories were about their journeys and the friends they made along the way. They would make new friends as they would travel together. If someone’s wagon broke down, or a horse died, they would pitch in and help their fellow traveler in need.

We do the same thing now. I have helped repair a stuck Workhorse or other coach a time or two. My wife and I have been to lots of rallies and fed lots of people. People have looked after us. Our coaching friends on the forums, at campouts and especially at Deer Creek Motorcoach resort have helped us though some tough times more than once.

I don’t think that Barry and Mario had any idea what kind of community they would be giving birth to when they conceived the idea of building a motor coach resort. Deer Creek is more than a resort with clubhouse, golf course and a lot of handsome coaches parked on pretty lots. It is not just a resort…it is a refuge. It is a fort full of good people.

We are family. I would not give up this life for anything. I will continue to hit the road and take the risk that something unexpected might happen. Most of the time that unexpected thing is good like meeting someone like Bob and making a friend, possibly for life.

That is the best thing about being a member of the Motorcoach Family.

Hopefully I won’t have to buy a new mailbox anytime soon.

Derrick
  • I'll bring over my empty cup anytime I see you around...maybe I'll be carrying a couple of Danish with me...
  • -Gramps- wrote:

    I think we have the old American pioneering spirit still living in us. We are descendants of the people who loaded up their covered wagons and headed west. They would rally up at some fort on the trail. They shared food, and drink and stories.


    I agree whole-heartedly.

    But I can't help but wonder what my Great Grandfather, who drove those Conestogas west would wonder if he saw me sitting...

    ... in a leather wrapped
    ... heated in the winter
    ... cooled in the summer
    ... padded with lumbar support

    seat.

    Fiddling with the AC dial, trying to get the coach precisely to 72.4*F.

    Looking at my iPhone; checking how far away the next Dairy Queen is.






    Part of me thinks, he'd just shake his head and back away.
    :)
  • Nice story summing up one the many reasons we RV. We started RV'ing back in 1990 with a group of Ham radio operators called Klara Kampers, about a 120 of us all together. Anywhere from 10 to 20 members would go out camping somewhere local each month. Great time always had by all members with the plus of meeting new people each trip.

    I find that campers where more open and friendlier back then, than they are today. We still find a few camper each trip but they seem to be fewer and further apart than when we RV back in the 90s. Maybe it has something to do with RVs having more goodies inside. People don't seem to sit outside as much especially in the evening. I remember getting up each morning and going outside, fire up the Coleman store to perk a pot of coffee. Actually two pots of coffee as people would come over with their empty coffee cups. Today on our trips the only thing that happen while making the morning coffee were people asking me why are you making coffee outside and using a perk-a-lator? Seem nobody comes outside much anymore to just walk around except to walk their dog.

    Maybe we need to limit the time campers are to watch TV and use their cell phones? Then people would come out of their rigs and talk with other campers. I miss the camp fires with 20 to 30 people sitting around and talking through the evening.

    Just in case you haven't guessed I am the guy that walks up to you and starts talking. So beware I am out there walking around and will stop to talk to everyone I find outside.
  • gbopp wrote:
    -Gramps- wrote:
    the voices in my head,

    Please, let us know what the voices are telling you and where you will be traveling/camping.....:E


    I don't talk on the cell when driving my coach and I ignore the voices!;) I don't hear voices of course but I do have a sign that I carry around that I stick in the ground when we camp..UFO PARKING ONLY! it causes a few weird looks to come my way..
  • -Gramps- wrote:
    the voices in my head,

    Please, let us know what the voices are telling you and where you will be traveling/camping.....:E