We keep it simple and pack for our own comfort and ease. We pack paper plates and plastic glasses.
We do use regular stainless steel utensils and we have our own set of pots and pans for the coach. This minimizes a lot of the rattling and noise from dishes and also cuts down on the weight we are hauling. It also eliminates a lot of the hassle with washing dishes and we can always replenish our dishes at any Walmart. Since we travel a lot in the Winter and do not hook up to shore water, this also prolongs the range we get out of our fresh water tank.
They also make spring loaded bars that we use in the refrigerator and cupboards to keep things in place. These are available online or at Camping World.
We travel to relax and to enjoy the surrounding scenery.