I think we're getting there. The old give and take. What do you really want, vs what do you really, really want. The closest we've found so far, with all your help, is the Phoenix Cruiser 2100. 21' on a Ford gas chassis. Has the dinette where I can have my coffee while she sleeps in. Has the walk around bed (which set-up is really cheesy) and that is the only problem. Open this recliner, unlatch the table/foot rest, set it in place and then do the same for the other half. OH don't forget the spanner/insert to make it a complete bed. Now make the bed. NOT!
Had it been a Murphy type bed, pull down and sleep. It would be a done deal.
Has a slide, which is on the OK side of the list, 21', which is on the preferred side as is the Ford gas engine. The floor plan is definitely on the plus side, but the bed set up blows it all.
Plan on making the NDOG in June, which is in Loudonville, Ohio, and just might detour on the way home and stop in and see these folks. Just to see what they can do.
Thanks for all the great advice. Gosh knows I need all the help I can get.