would you sacrifice drivability for more livability?

If commercial vehicles were struggling, I think you would have to expect an RV would as well. You mentioned that you have experience driving a delivery truck so your expectations might be higher than mine. Sometimes we just have to slow down, which is a problem for someone with a schedule to meet. It does sound like you were in extremely windy conditions. Glad to hear you are happy with your Pursuit. Pleasure Way quality is superb.