Losing our pets

While our dogs teach us many things in life, in death they teach us how to say good bye, to grieve, and to love again.

I'd also like to add that if I don't send my condolences it doesn't mean I don't care or I'm not thinking of you. It just usually means I just can't deal because for some reason it hits too close to home.

I agree. Today marks 4 years since we said goodbye to lady. We had 17 great years with her and no dog can ever compare to her. Miss her still, her collar, tags and a picture is hanging on my wall.

I sincerely believe that when we were young and a pet died that it prepared us for life to come.

I'm just an old softy, and it always gets me in the heart when I read one the pet obits. At times I say to myself "I can't read anymore of these", but I always do. I don't always reply, sometimes I do, but the sting of losing our Chester back in '05 is still there, so I know how it hurts. We all grieve in our own way, and I think it does help to receive support from those that understand. Amazing isn't it, how attached we get to our little critter kids. :)

Barb, I have seen 4 posts where pets have crossed over to rainbow bridge. I thought the same as you as this seems a high number in such a short time. It makes me very sad for the beloved owners to the point I have held mine a little tighter and have given them more kisses than normal.

Winter seems to be a bad time. Chronic, lingering problems seem to get worse and finally reach the critical point. I know we have seen this with our own dogs over time, all have gone between October and February.

Doug

Your Right on the Money and I agree wholeheartedly! Voicing your Grief and loss and then receiving love and support in return is a tremendous refuge for anyone who Loves their pets!