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dturm
Jul 16, 2013Moderator
I understand what your vet is saying and it really does happen. There is a spark in their eyes that's gone, behavior changes, constant pain, physical limitations that you as an owner can no longer deal with or an incurable disease or condition that affects the quality of life.
Where is that point? It varies so much from person to person and from animal to animal that I don't think any of us can tell you when it's time.
If you are asking the question, you are carefully considering all the options. Don't let anyone else guilt you into doing what they think is right. When you make the decision, don't second guess or think what if.
Doug, DVM
PS we're in that situation with Charmin now. Very significant osteoarthritis in an 85# dog is a limiting factor when considering my ability to physically care for him. Add in his respiratory "old dog lung" condition, temperamental digestive system and we're getting close. But he still is trying, enjoys camping and interacts with us, Henry and Jill, so we'll keep going.
Where is that point? It varies so much from person to person and from animal to animal that I don't think any of us can tell you when it's time.
If you are asking the question, you are carefully considering all the options. Don't let anyone else guilt you into doing what they think is right. When you make the decision, don't second guess or think what if.
Doug, DVM
PS we're in that situation with Charmin now. Very significant osteoarthritis in an 85# dog is a limiting factor when considering my ability to physically care for him. Add in his respiratory "old dog lung" condition, temperamental digestive system and we're getting close. But he still is trying, enjoys camping and interacts with us, Henry and Jill, so we'll keep going.
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