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niccofive
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Nov 05, 2013

Encouragement, Thoughts? Newbie is scared!

Hi everyone,

I'm a married Mom of 3 who has always dreamed of taking a cross country trip with her kids. Now my kids are 18, 15 and 11 and I'm realizing that I need to do this soon if it is going to happen. As it is, the 18 year old and my husband would only fly out and join us for about a week because they will be working during the summer.

That's where I start to panic a bit. I've never RV'd before and I am terrified that I am biting off more than I can chew or that I will somehow find myself in a situation that I can't fix! I am imagining every possible thing that could go wrong. My negative voice is screaming!

Here's what I imagine for the trip:

Duration of about a month.
Departing from Maryland and driving one way, to end in Las Vegas. (cheapest place to fly back.)
Renting a Class C.

One thing that I get really stressed and worried about is driving in the mountainous regions (like in Wyoming, Colorado, Utah.)

I didn't grow up in a camping family. I have no experience with campgrounds, RVs, any of that.

That being said, I'm smart and not usually afraid- I have an adventurous spirit and positive outlook. Also, my 11 year old will be sort of useless (!) but my almost 16 year old boy (by then) is stable, bright and helpful.

I was thinking of renting an RV for a long weekend with the boys for a trial, to see if I think we can hack it.

Also, I was thinking of renting from a place like cruise america, but then I research online and see horror stories of things going wrong and I completely panic.

PLEASE PLEASE give me some input, feedback, advice, encouragement etc.
I welcome all of it!

I don't want to look back and wish that I had done this (I've talked about doing this for 3 years but I've always chickened out!) but on the other hand, I don't want to really mess up.

Also, another option would be to rent an RV and take it about midway and then rent a van or SUV for the remaining half. What do you think of that?

Thank you in advance for all of your help!!