@ktmrfs, so from what I'm understanding, I need a weight distributing hitch, which should help with the swaying and after then I get the sway bars? Now, I've been looking at equalizer online, is that all one unit? I want to be safe, I don't want to spend a small fortune but if I need to spend $500 to do this right then that's what I have to do. From what my wife is telling me, the dealers she spoke to today weren't very helpful. I guess what I need is a specific parts list so I can take that to a dealer and not depend on their knowledge or lack there of. And Thank you everyone for all the info. It's very appreciated.