I give up, tried to explain that I am only looking for the ball mount, not a complete adjustable hitch. Thought posting in the towing forum might help but does not look like it will. I suppose if I had posted a pic it would have been clearer than just words, that worth a thousand words thing. Thanks anyway, Reese got back to me with a phone number. It was a strange email that gave me the number of customer service then warned me not to attach a chain or strap to the stinger for towing. I have no idea how they got the idea I would be doing that.