I appreciate the input but first off we are not obsessed with our grand kids by any means and really only see them about once a week. We did not get to see our first two grandbabies but once a year due to my son was in the military stationed overseas. So we only got to see the oldest two once a year till they were 6 and 7. He moved close by us now and they just had the youngest grandbaby about a year 1.5 years ago. We are a very very small family and we all are very close. We all enjoy being with each other when we can but we do not impose or pry in any way. Was just curious how other people deal with the issue of family and to be honest some answers were disturbing but some were very informing and I thank you all.
