Noe-Place-
You are making this WAAAAAY too hard.
To pick a toad because some CS rep does not return a call IMHO would be foolish. You already know how reliable the info they gave you is. Most of those CS reps at ANY mfg. likely don't know the difference between 4 down towing and tow truck towing.They probably don't even drive a car.
There are Tow Guides easily available, every car mfg. has their owners manuals easily available on line and Ford has a specific towing guide available.
Don't go on the info you have so far and believe the CRV is the only one that will work. A lot of knowledgeable forum members have tried to help you with this question you had. They shared personal knowledge of vehicles that met your request and suggested vehicles. I told you the Ford Focus and Fiesta were towable in the 3rd reply. Why bother posting the question if you already had your mind made up that you were only going to go by info given to you by CS reps at the Mfgs.?
Good Luck