^Not being that guy, just providing info, quick CL search in my typical 300mi radius area, “Ford hitch” for sale by owner had 262 results. Didn’t go thru them all but in less than 1 minute, saw 2 ea 2.5” takeoff OE receivers but one was from a 2017. And one full on Torklift setup off a 99 Sooper Doody, including the super truss.
That’s where my suggestion came from. Plus if the OP lives anywhere where pick n pull junkyards are still a thing, any F250/350 in the appropriate age range that didn’t get rear ended when it got totaled will have one hanging off the back, quite likely.
But I do agree with you as well, if $400 gets a new hitch shipped to his door, then that easy button may be the best button to press.
In New York, yeah all the older ones are probably half rusted thru boat anchors by now.
And based on Miguel’s location, San Diego probably doesn’t allow u pick ‘em junk yards. Known to cause cancer in the state of California or something as equally silly as why they don’t have em around here anymore either.