Really really sorry for your loss. Seems I am hearing more of these stories all the time. Your point is solid. You have some great memories to look back on. You did it right. Life is such a precious gift not to be returned to the giver unopened. It is important to realize this life time wise is a grain of sand on an eternal beach. Really, in my opinion, the only thing we do that has eternal consequences is to decide if the Bible is what it claims or the biggest con job ever laid at our feet. And it that is true what was the motive. For me the Bible is so real proving itself with no doubts. Okay gettin off the soap box now before I fall. Happy trails amego