The 2014 may not be towable four-down, but people are towing 2012's 4-down and maybe 2013's. At some point Honda changed the transmission and the new ones are not towable. I think if you have a 5-speed trans you can tow, but a 6-speed you cannot. Note that Honda does not sanction this, but people are doing it successfully using the Honda pre-tow procedure from the earlier models (2005 Pilot and MDX) that were approved by Honda for towing. If the tranny breaks you are on your own. Honda will not be responsible.
Another possibility that works is towing a Chrysler minivan and installing a Remco transmission pump. Check it out
here.