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Crowe
Mar 08, 2014Explorer
One has to wonder.. if you don't miss RVing then why are you here?
It's called "FRIENDS".
The OP lives in a state where it is harsh winter. What he is suffering from is called Seasonal Affective disorder - SAD. No joke... He doesn't need pills or thrarpy. What he needs is sunshine.
Maybe, maybe not. I live in a harsh winter climate. I suffer from SAD but that's not why I don't want an RV right now. I am just not interested in RVing at this point in my life. It might be more serious than that, it might be less serious. NONE of us can diagnose what's wrong.
The above said and judging by your post a few back, maybe some warm air and sunshine is the cure. It's finally warm enough here to run the dogs on the beach, which we are going to do this afternoon.
Agree with "judge lest ye be judged". Life changes. People change. Couples grow differently and want different things (I'll have been married 30 years this May so I know) and that's not necessarily a bad thing. It's how the couple handles it that is important. And sometimes we just hit the wall and we JUST DON'T WANT TO DO SOMETHING and nobody should force us otherwise or tell us there's something wrong with us.
RVTEN, go do what YOU want for a while. Stand on your head. Run around in your birthday suit. Sit on the couch with the dog. You need to clear your head and determine what your next step in life is. Keep up with the doc if necessary. Not a diagnosis but a gut feel from me-you've had the "epiphany of age" when you realize you aren't as young as you used to be. It's scary and sometimes it causes emotional pain. I may be way out of line or off base but been there done that. And as my MIL says "this, too, shall pass". Good luck and keep us posted.
It's called "FRIENDS".
The OP lives in a state where it is harsh winter. What he is suffering from is called Seasonal Affective disorder - SAD. No joke... He doesn't need pills or thrarpy. What he needs is sunshine.
Maybe, maybe not. I live in a harsh winter climate. I suffer from SAD but that's not why I don't want an RV right now. I am just not interested in RVing at this point in my life. It might be more serious than that, it might be less serious. NONE of us can diagnose what's wrong.
The above said and judging by your post a few back, maybe some warm air and sunshine is the cure. It's finally warm enough here to run the dogs on the beach, which we are going to do this afternoon.
Agree with "judge lest ye be judged". Life changes. People change. Couples grow differently and want different things (I'll have been married 30 years this May so I know) and that's not necessarily a bad thing. It's how the couple handles it that is important. And sometimes we just hit the wall and we JUST DON'T WANT TO DO SOMETHING and nobody should force us otherwise or tell us there's something wrong with us.
RVTEN, go do what YOU want for a while. Stand on your head. Run around in your birthday suit. Sit on the couch with the dog. You need to clear your head and determine what your next step in life is. Keep up with the doc if necessary. Not a diagnosis but a gut feel from me-you've had the "epiphany of age" when you realize you aren't as young as you used to be. It's scary and sometimes it causes emotional pain. I may be way out of line or off base but been there done that. And as my MIL says "this, too, shall pass". Good luck and keep us posted.
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