My Anger Meltdown over Service Dept.
Today,I had a nice leisurely drive to the dealership where I purchased my travel trailer. I was just taking it to have the antifreeze flushed out of the water lines. All went well until I got home....
Forum Discussion
am1958 wrote:toedtoes wrote:
It's OK to be angry. It's not OK to take that anger out on someone.
Unless, of course, they are the ones who generated the anger in you - at which point they are fair game...
Actually, no. The point of not letting your emotions dictate your actions is because you then lose control of yourself.
Emotions are internal. What "generates" them is your own body's system. That's why people get angry at different things. No one else forces you to get angry - you don't even consciously make that decision. That's why it's always OK to have an emotional reaction.
But as soon as you let that emotion dictate your actions/behavior, you lose control. And when you lose control, you lose.
