I know for fact that most especially in the South show a lot of respect for their elders. I moved to Florida in 1993; noticed it then. I then started work camping in 1999; worked in NY state; then in Maryland; Virginia; Mississippi where I really noticed respect; Iowa; Ky and now retired in Tn where I hear most folks call everyone; Sir; Mam; or just a friendly hello. Did i forget; Sweety and Sweetheart. I believe you will all will do just fine.
I say search; search and research making sure this is the life you want. I seen many couples doing this and some with kids; pets are kids too.