I hear ya. My wife and I both have big medical issues, but not life threatening so far! We take it a day at a time. Some days we keep busy and others we don't get anything done.
Gonna sell the house in 3 years and hit the road. Have to figure out the Dr visits and the med orders. But one way or another we will get it done.
It used to be fun having a home and all the upkeep and such. Not so much anymore. Since value in owning a home has diminished to nil, we feel its more of a burden to do all the repairs and upkeep. Countdown to an easier lifestyle is stated!