Old grumpy guy

I'm 72 and have RVed for over 40 years. I'm wondering where and when you mostly camp? We snowbird in winter mostly at state parks and almost never have the problems you are listing but school is in session and it's mostly senior campers. In summer We go to national parks, some state parks, corps of engineers, etc with occasional private campgrounds and still don't see the problems much but there are more families, kids, etc. So, I'm thinking, avoid holiday weekends and RV more in winter if possible. Also, avoid campgrounds around festivals, celebrations, etc. that attract part-time campers and not "real RVers". In 40 years only 3 or 4 really bad situations come to mind. I don't think we are all that tolerant but we do have a couple of noisy fans on at night and don't hear much.