I don't think that people are being cynical. I think they are trying to figure out why someone with no money is only able to get $15 a month for food stamps. It is a pittance and no one should have to or could survive on that.
They are thinking of down home and hoping he isn't being mislead, thus causing him more stress. He has his own problems right now too.
I am sure most would help they're family if they needed it. I know I for one would never see my kids with out food or shelter, they are our life!
Questioning some of the info he got from his kids is only human. I really think they had the best intentions.
carmichael, I will keep your son and his family in my prayers too. They are lucky to have such caring parents.