Sorry to hear of your problems and really disturbing is some of the attitueds on here. Obviously none of these people has walked in your shoes. Yes I believe they only offered 15.00 a month thats typical. Some of the food banks here now wont even give food unless you quailify for food stamps. I have went through some bad times the last couple of years and coming out of it now. He need to apply for ssdi now there may be a chance that he could have more strokes especially laking good medical care. SSDI will take awhile.