We had a Tacoma from 2005 to 2009 with a disconnect. Had it installed at the factory in Omaha. Towed about 50,000 miles and it worked fine. That business of cleaning and siliconing every time is just nonsense. Maybe twice a year I would clean it and lube. Once I took it back to have it adjusted. They showed me how to adjust and once more it had to be adjusted. Once you do it a few times it almost falls into place. I think the problems reported here are from bad installation. What happened to the Remco factory? I know it was sold but where are they located now?
Moisheh