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pullin2
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Dec 28, 2013

Q for Retirees... re: Extended trips

For years, retirement was a distant concept to us, but now it's getting close and we're starting to wrap our heads around the idea. We're mostly empty-nesters now, and it appears the kids are that most-wonderful type of offspring (that actually move out). :)

Now that we can start thinking about long, relaxed trips in the fiver, we are wondering how folks handle leaving their house empty for extended periods? We've always been limited to a week or two because of work schedules, so we haven't really needed to plan for long absences. Both kids will (probably) be living in other states, so there aren't any relatives to periodically check on the house.

So how do experienced retirees (not full-timers) handle leaving your house empty for a month or more while traveling?

1. Mail? Do you have a forwarding service? Neighbors collect it?
2. Yard? Obviously we'll need a lawn service, but are leery of strangers knowing the house is empty. It seems asking my neighbors to watch and pick up flyers for months would be a little much.
3. Security? Do you have friends who periodically enter the house?
4. Maintenance? Planning to shut off the water, but a small problems could grow over the course of a month or so (ie. failed freezer, roof leak, etc.)
5. Bills? We're moving almost everything to online, but would appreciate any additional advice on this.

Finally to those who are retired, but haven't become full-timers, how long is your average trip now? Is it much different from when you were working? It seems we will be able to spend 3-4 or even 5 weeks leisurely working our way around the country, but sometimes the reality is different.

Any advice appreciated, we've been concentrating on the financial side of retirement planning, and haven't given a lot of thought to exactly "how" we'll really do it.
  • Some people have neighbors or relatives take care of mail. If that's not an option and you really are going to travel a lot, consider renting a private mail box at a UPS Store or similar place. Then switch all your house mail over to it, except for any you don't really care about. It's a lot easier to call the UPS Store and have them forward your mail in a parcel than to deal with USPS. OTOH if you are talking mostly about one long trip per year, then you can just use the post office's system. But for several trips a year, that is too much hassle IMO.

    Yard & Security. No matter how hard you try, people are going to know that you are gone. Alarm system and good neighbors are your best bets. Obviously you have to find someone to mow the grass. And someone has to have a key in case of emergency.

    Power failure. We bought an alarm on amazon.com which monitors for water in our sump pump, freezing temps, and power failure. It has a battery and connects to a phone line. It calls 3 programmed numbers in case of alarm. Works nice, although when it calls we keep looking at our cell phones and saying "why are we getting calls from home???" So far we've only had the power outages.

    Bills. Move everything online. There are always a few things that can't quite be done that way, but usually they are known in advance. Tax bills etc.

    Length of trip. 3 weeks is nothing once you get your system working. 1-2 months has been the limit for us due to logistics at home, though.
  • 1. I have had neighbors collect it if I will be gone over the 30 day limit the post office will hold it. Over winter I file a temporary address change at the posts office and have it sent to the RV park I'll be staying at.
    2. I hire a lawn service to take care of it.
    3. Yes, if gone over winter.
    4. I do turn off the water, don't worry about the other things.
    5. All of my bills are paid by automatic bank draft.

    I have been gone from home as long as 10 weeks during our trip to Alaska, and several trips from a week to 4 weeks. Just go and enjoy.