pulsar wrote:
While I was moderating, I tried to post a reason for closing a thread, unless it was obvious. When I first started, I would send a private message to the poster of a post that I deleted. Instead of seeing that as a courtesy, most saw that as an invitation to debate or, more likely, call me any obscene name that came to mind. I am sure the other moderators experienced the same. Except for new members, I quit sending notifications.
Tom
I used to do a "shot across the bow" PM when someone was getting close to the line. After getting into several urination confrontations, I now just delete their posts.