Your and your husband have a DREAM and I say go for it .. we have talked to too many people who also had the dream we have and didn't do anything about living their dream and now regret it ...
I hear you though my MIL didn't want her daughter to move 4 states away, and she prayed, prayed, and prayed some more, but the house sold anyway, they bought another house where they wanted to live, and have enjoyed being near their family .. they kept in contact with MIL and she did forgive them eventually.
LIVE YOUR DREAM while you can ...
