As others have said, I agree that life would be a lot more pleasant if you figured out how to make peace with the neighbor. Some people are more sensitive to smoke than others. Personally, I love the comradeship that develops around a campfire, and the relaxing atmosphere it creates, but the smoke really bothers my sinuses, and I hate the smell on my clothes, skin, etc. I solved the problem by buying a portable propane fire pit thingy. I is quick and easy to set up, and doesn't really use much propane. It also eliminates the need to haul and store firewood, eliminates the hassle of starting and putting out the fire, and you can still make some-mores and toast marshmallows, etc. Get one, light it up, gather around, and invite the neighbor and his wife over for a beer. You can wear him down.....and make life more pleasant for both of you ........