If going to the time & expense of installing a new top-mount coupler, I'd go for a Bulldog coupler as below. Supposed to be far better than standard Fulton type coupler.
I'm curious though: Jayco uses the BAL Ultraframe. With the usual Lippert frames, the top of the A-frame tubing is attached to the underside of the I-beams but on the BAL frames the bottom of the A-frame tubing is at the same elevation as the underside of the I-beams. If the coupler was changed, the coupler would be at a non-standard elevation relative to the frame of 5" (A-frame tubing height). Could this negatively affect the geometry and WDH setup?
If it were me, I'd leave the coupler as is and change to Reese trunnion style bars. The Reese DC WDH is awesome when it's all set up and tweaked properly and IMO better than others due to it's proactive self-aligning action.
Can't make sense of the tape measurements. What are the before and after front fender heights? Is the new truck 2" higher off the ground in the rear compared to the old truck or is there a 2" rise in the rear of the truck with WDH engaged? An inch or two of sag is typical. If the TT is 1 1/2" lower in the front end, I'd try and make it closer to level (still nose down) - use a ball with 1" rise if needed. This would provide more clearance from the road surface.