I read everything over again, all the posts, It sunk in correctly this time.
Starduster, I really feel for you. I wish I had an answer for you. It seems that the people like you that pay their bills etc. are being honest are the ones that get stuck like this. Thanks for sharing your story. Your courage and honesty about the situation will hopefully help others and open their eyes as to what the future can bring. As I read these posts again, we skimmed over our own lives and have made a few new decisions on our future. I certainly hope things can work out and relieve you of this stress.
Lorraine