Was I Wrong? (Long Story)

cm11599ps wrote:

FunnyCamper wrote:
cm, you were not wrong. if ya read my post, HE started the confrontation. point blank by annoying tone, calling out to you and then coming to you to take this further.

HE could have turned back and trained pup in another direction.

so more him than you.....but you are not totally off the hook, cause if the initial tone got YOU mad and the fur on the back of your neck up----YOU then have the upper hand. Leave the situation and NOTHING would have happened after that.

not one of us on this planet wants to back down :)

but the whole situation in general was stupid to be taken that far by BOTH of you. he started it, sure, you could have ended it SO FAST. but you took a different road.

now you live with the consequences of your actions to someone else's.
it was not life or death. protecting your family. not a real dire confrontation.

pick your battles and this one didn't have to come this far at all.

did he do wrong. absolutely, but sometimes ya gotta give people a break for being a pain in the azz and stupidity :)

True, but if I just walked away then I would have just been pissed at myself for bowing down to the jerk. I pick and choose my battles and this was one I selected. :-)

:B

HAHA I hear ya. but in the end, if you had walked, no one else would be involved, it would never have escalated and DONE.

so if ya WANT the battle, then you chose it. Which to me means you want confrontation in a way. See, ya can't back down. My hubby is like that, he would have done what you did, but if I was there I would have said, walk from this idiot, WHO CARES. it is not a pride thing for me.

(don't get me wrong, right battle hubby would be pulling me off someone at some point!) but the battle is key. what is the battle about? sometimes we choose the stupid battle also :)