Chuck...they broke the mold when you came out. Very stand up bro.
I'd encourage her to do the things she likes to do, if its RVing... Then get her driving.
I'd of course make sure all of your finances are in order... I have setup a few letters and cards to be sent to my wife at a few stages in the grieving process. My executor will either deliver or mail them. Two are hand written and one is spoken. The power of hearing ones voice is amazing. I have one recording of my father signing happy birthday to my grandmother...
Shower her in love. Live as much as you can. Fight hard..... Warrior
