A sealed, and recorded, will, with someone close having a copy. Recorded instructions with the designated executor. Most people are buried, but my wife wants to be cremated and not buried. I told her to put this stuff in writing. I don't want to be cremated, and have to put it in writing to stop someone from doing it to me!!! Not that it matters any after I'm gone, but we all need to have this talk with our spouses and record what our desires are. Oh, I also want someone to play "Amazing Grace" on Bagpipes at my funeral!!! Any volunteers?
