Helping them do what? Wash up or use the rest room? If mom was in the shower and one of the kids had to go NOW then he may have had no choice. If it was just washing them up then he probably should have waited until mom was available. I personally wouldn't care-after having a miscarriage and the necessary procedure afterwards, giving birth, 2 heart caths, a 9 day stay in a teaching hospital and multiple other tests, a man walking into a ladies restroom to help his two kids is the least of my worries. The gym I go to only has male cleaning staff-they post a sign on the door if he's in there and send a female front desk employee through to ask each person if they are OK with it. I figure if some poor young man sees me in my birthday suit then he's far more likely to be scarred for life than I am going to be embarrassed!