what would I do?
NO men in ladies shower facilities at cg's clearly marked mens and womens is ever acceptable to me.
I have a 10 year old daughter and if she came out of a shower with a man standing their she would have been instantly scared. No younger female would expect to see a full grown man standing in the shower house and that would not be appropriate for a younger gal ever to encounter. An adult woman could handle the situation, but think of the younger females who can use the facilities on their own at a certain age but are still young enough to be scared out of their wits confronted by a situation like this.
not appropriate at all! As an adult I would talk directly to the man. I would say I have a young daughter who comes in this facility and HIM being in there is NOT appropriate at all. If his response was appropriate, as in I won't come in again, then fine, if I got attitude I would report to staff immediately.
My hubby would have a cow thinking that a man is in the womens facilities and his 10 year old daughter might encounter him. Nope....not acceptable by any means to me.