why reply if you are going to be mean?
Seen this many times, but first time it happened to me. I asked a question here because i was looking for personal experience about a location. Instead of helpful info, i get "call the place", really,...
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On here, or in person, you ask for my opinion....do not be surprised if I give it to you.
Bingo. I often tell people if you don't REALLY want to know the answer, don't ask me the question.
If a member thinks the OP should go look somewhere else for the answer, it would be a kindness to not say so.
Why? The people who won't take the time to call for a definitive answer are the same people who criticize others when they don't get the answer they want or turn around after a bad experience and say "but you said". If they can take the time to post a question, they can take the time to make a simple phone call.
Bingo. I often tell people if you don't REALLY want to know the answer, don't ask me the question.
If a member thinks the OP should go look somewhere else for the answer, it would be a kindness to not say so.
Why? The people who won't take the time to call for a definitive answer are the same people who criticize others when they don't get the answer they want or turn around after a bad experience and say "but you said". If they can take the time to post a question, they can take the time to make a simple phone call.
